iNTEGRATION & uNITY iN pLURAL sOCIETY...a mALAYSIAN pOINT oF vIEW...

In these days,we can clearly see that racial intergration and unity in our plural society is diminishing and losing its importance in the society.At first I could not differentiate the meaning of integration and unity.I wasn't even aware of what we (Malaysia) are lacking of....Integration or unity? Then I managed to simplifythe definition of integration and unity...

INTEGRATION=MIXTURE

UNITY=COMPOUND

Mixture ,scientifically means two elements mix together physically but are not thoroughly mingled in other words easy to separate.

Compound,scientifically means two elements mix together by chemical means and it is very hard to separate them again.

In Malaysia,we can see that we have racial integration but not unity.A chinese is a friend to a malay and indian but they do not treat each other as ONE....I'm not saying this happens all the time but I'm talking about the common situation here.It can be a over-generalized statement to some who reads this posting and I'm sorry about that.I'm not condemning any group or party.In fact,I'm very much saddened by the 'indigestible' fact that we are lacking of unity and our integration bond is soon breaking due to racial disputes and whatsoever...

Here,I believe each and everyone of us should take the initiative to improve this situation.All races should respect the interest and rights of all other races.This will automatically reduce the bitterness in our relationship.The moment we start to understand what EQUALITY means, I am pretty sure no racial disputes will ever take place in a wonderful country like Malaysia.This is one country that the world has witness to be in a state of peace and harmony though resided by people of different backgrounds and cultures altogether.Thus it is our responsibility to maintain such pride,reputation and status to prove to the world that being different from each other is not the reason for drifting ourselves towards vengeance and hatred like what is happening around the globe.The war,so much disagreement,power disputes etc..

But Malaysia is not one of them.I am proud to be born in such a country, so my humble request to everyone out there,forget about all the differences in us,search for the similarities...and trust me we are same!!!WE ARE MALAYSIANS!!!PROUD TO BE A MALAYSIAN....please promote racial integration and unity! Everything starts with a first baby step...Rome wasn't build in a day...

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SUICIDE?...not my choice...

Sitting in a room drifting further and further away,
Dreaming of how my death will play out today,
I cant seem to break away from this emotional distress,
If you take a look inside me you know im a mess,
My life means a little less than days that came before,
Im giving into the sensation,i can take no more
This aint the way it should be, i cant change
My heart is shattered and it just cant be re-arranged,
The piper is leading me away to my execution,
My blood will cover the earth like toxic pollution,
This is the way its gotta be, gotta control the confusion
The end of the pain the only real solution....SUICIDE!

Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain.Have anyone drifted so far that he/she thought there's was no way to return,to find the right path?In this era of globalization,mankind is so much forced to do so many things that are not what they wish to do...but undeniably there's surely something that will initiate their wrongdoings....no matter how much we find the root we will never get it.It is easy to say that calm down,get back on the right track ,start novel and afresh...but is it that simple?NO...what we see is not always the reality...we should widen our mind horizon...sometimes we are so bewildered that there's nothing we can see...but the whole idea is that we still see,we still find a way though it is wrong both religion and legal wise..SUICIDE!

Well,there's dozens of reasons why people choose this path,why they choose to wipe out their existence...people sometimes just will be simpletons in certain situations...sort of no strength to think any further...it is not easy to analyse this field what we can call as "SUICISM"... there are times my life was shaken by the so many problems concurrently accuring..i couldn't take the pain any longer as if i were to burst and disperse into the boundless regions of the infinite...fortunately,i recovered...it was tough but i became strong then....i did not choose suicide as my path...i chose life...because i finally realized how important my existence is.....i make some people around me happy...isn't that a beautiful reason to choose LIFE?

To all teenagers out there...my 1 and ultimate advice....Life is only traveled Once, Today's Moment becomes Tomorrow's memory. Enjoy every moment, good or bad, because the Gift of Life is Life itself...Cheers to life!!!!!

old is not always gold.....

....well,not many will agree with my notion "old is not always gold"....not until you guys 'digest' the facts that im about to divulge here....hmmm,perhaps this will benefit more girls out there than the guys...but it is okay...the guys can read it too....in the end of the day,let ur girlfriends know,what say?...to be honest im an analyser and observer...what exactly i analyse and observe...?COSMETICS....the definition of cosmetic is a toiletry designed to beautify the body...true enough but how long it actually help to beautify one self?

Everything has a life span.so do cosmetic ranging from make-up and skin care..after certain period of time your cosmetic are not avail to beautify you...recently,an article in the FEMALE magazine cought my attention and after reading through i was pretty amazed by the fact that cosmetic has very short life span no matter if your make-up is from any top brands..like BOBBY BROWN,THE BODY SHOP,L'OREAL etc...Im certainly not denying the quality of these top-brands but what im emphasizing here is merely the shelf life...no doubt these brands i just mentioned dominates markets world wide...no question about that...

Here is the list that you should read and then decide whether which of your make-up should now 'reside' on your dressing table and the rest in the litter bin.....

• MAKE-UP

1. Concealers > 6-12 months
2. Foundation >6-18 months
3. Powders >1-2 years
4. Lip balm >1-3 years
5. Lip liner >3 years
6. Lipsticks > 1-2 years
7. Lipglosses >3-12 months
8. Blushers/bronzers >6-12 months
9. Eye shadow >6-24 months
10. Eyeliners >3-6 months
11. Mascaras >1-3 months
12. Make-up remover >1-3 years

• SKINCARE

1. Cleanser >6-12 months
2. Toners >1 year
3. Moisterizers/eye cream >6-12 months
4. Sunblocks >2 years
5. Deodorants >3 years
6. Body lotion >1-2 years

Well i made my decision the day i read this...i threw all my age old makeups and skincare products.....have you made your decision by now?Be aware that expired products can cause many side effects....you don't wanna get into trouble,do you?think wise,be wise,be FoReVeR 21...

she's here now......

.......it all began this very semester....one fine day,i received a text message....."hi,i'll be staying with you.do you have a padlock?"That was the first text message from her....no name to address her...i was blown out of the water when i got that....finally she told me the whole scenario,what on earth was going on and who she is.....pheww...relieved....however,i doubt what sort of room mate she's gonna be...i predicted many possibilities...all were awry....lol...1 word for her.....TERRIFIC.....!she's not just friend,she's family....i love inti for i love her......we spent the time we can with each other....another name for FRIENDSHIP....unquestionably,beyond doubt is KAREN......the acquaintance with her in this lifetime journey is to cherish....Love is a language that every heart speaks; the sharing of dreams and turning them to reality. The ocean of love and the warmth of friendship makes life complete....CHEERS TO KAREN(MY ROOMMATE)!!!!